Sorry I have not written for a while, the past two weeks have been fairly manic, and tonight is the first chance I have had to really sit down and have a good blog.
There are still a lot of things I need to do but they can wait, as I just really wanted to crank out another post.
I suppose that says that I must really enjoy doing it and don't find it a chore at all.
One thing I must admit is that by spending time writing down one's thoughts, it really does make you stop and think about what has been happening, and what is important to me.
I must start by thanking all of my wonderful friends for the kind thoughts and words they shared for me on my birthday last week. It really makes me feel special and grateful to know that I am surrounded by amazing people in my life.
A funny story about my birthday that I just can't fully believe, even after 38 years...
From my earliest years I always had my birthday on August 18th.
However, when I was 15 I had to produce my birth certificate because I got reported playing football, and upon looking at it I noticed that my birthday was actually on August 17!
When I asked my mum about it all she could do was just laugh and say "Oh well, there is quite a few of you"!! I just love that attitude, it was no big deal at all.
She then asked me if I'd like to keep using the 18th as my birthday or switch to the 17th. I don't think she really considered the implications of this. Imagine me saying for the rest of my life that my birthday was on the 18th, but on documents etc I would have to write the 17th!!
So, since when I was 15 I switched to having my birthday on the right day, and believe me, it did take some getting accustomed to.
Along with the usual pressies, I received a book from my sister Anne who obviously knows me so well. Already I am engrossed in it, which is a mean feat as I usually don't have the patience to sit and read a book, but this one has floored me.
It is titled "How Far Can You Go?", written by John Maclean.
Basically it is the story of a super fit and super dedicated sportsman who becomes a paraplegic after a road accident on his bike, and the story follows his path of recovery.
As I am only three chapters in, I am yet to find out what happens, but already I am inspired by this amazing bloke.
As the former Australian cricket captain Steve Waugh says, "If you look up mental toughness you'll find a picture of John Maclean". Not a bad comment from someone known for having extreme mental toughness himself.
"Look how far you have come, now how far can you go?" - The words from his father that changed his whole mindset. Maclean was alway focussing on what he was able to do in the past, when he was more able bodied. Now his father was urging him not to dwell on the past, but focus on the future.
In this short moment, Maclean was able to forge ahead with greater resolve, and I am eagerly anticipating another chapter tonight!!Work has been a bit manic over the past week and a bit to say the least. In my role, one of the things I need to do each term is have meetings with parents of children who have special needs. Trying to get them all booked in over a few days is a nightmare in itself, but I nearly got them all in. Three days of meeting after meeting does become taxing, but at the same time is enjoyable because it is all about trying to find greater success for their children. Special Ed is a new role for me, one which I am still finding my feet in. I'm learning so much all the time, but still wonder if I'm doing it as well as previous people at our school who were brilliant at it.
After attending a Special Ed meeting at our local Education Office on Wednesday, it was then off to Melbourne with my wife as I had an appointment to see my shoulder surgeon. Jen had to come just in case I had to get a certain procedure done on it which precludes one from driving a car for 24 hours.
By the time we got to our digs in Brighton we were famished, so into the restaurant at the hotel we went. The lovely waitress presented the menu and was about to walk away when we both blurted out "We'll order straight away"!! We did, and the meals were gone in a flash, as were the desserts. God only knows what the waitress thought of us!
The next morning I was off to see my shoulder surgeon, as it is still giving me grief a few months after surgery.
It now turns out that although it is structurally sound, there is still a lot of inflammation in it, so I have been referred to a rheumatologist as he thinks I have developed rheumatoid arthritis.
Not the result I was really hoping for, but a lot worse could happen.
So, now I have to go and get some new treatment on it, hopefully it will help.
Being a positive person, the biggest hassle I can see is mainly in trying to spell my latest ailment!!!
So, I've blabbed about work, and my health, so what is on the cards for the holidays?
As you might know, I love to travel, and for my birthday (the 17th or 18th - feel free to choose, I had to!!) my family gave me a mystery flight.
This means that in the upcoming holidays, my wife and I are going away for a few days to somewhere in Australia. All we know is that it won't be Hobart, in Tasmania. Jen will get an email the night before we go, and all I have told her is that I need to know whether to pack for 'cold' or 'hot'.
It will be interesting to see at what stage I discover where we are going, as it is my plan to do everything I can to not find out until the last minute.
Regardless, wherever we go it will be great to just chill and explore for a few days.
The first thing I did when I opened the envelope however was to check that we would not be away for the AFL Grand Final day, as that is the pinnacle day of the sport I love the most. As we are travelling home on a Saturday, I'd be a massive danger on the road trying to listen to it on the radio, and an even worse passenger!!
Well, time to check out as I want to concentrate on the game on TV, and I'm also trying to psyche myself up for a big day of mowing in the yard tomorrow. If I really pull my finger out I'll nail it within 4 hours, let's see if I can do it!!
Until my next post...
Cheers!!